eat pray love

i like the idea of the ‘love’.. that people who have failed tend to be afraid of being loved…

having brought this topic into discussion soooo many times… the word ‘DI-CINTA-I’ to me is an active form. that for me to be able to be loved takes an equal effort to love (MEN-CINTA-I) someone.

as years go by we used to live our fantasy of a great family plus we have our definition of happiness, yet we have failed. those all make us hard to take the reality that what we want is not always the best for us.

for instance … there’s a man who live beneath the shadow of his dream woman. and when someone who finally love him unconditionally he tends to reject the love. i’m not saying it is wrong. not at all. i’m only picturing how hard it is being loved.

male usually are not a master in this field that his ego will tell him to runaway any time there’s a woman fall in love to him. that he has the reasons that this girl is easy or she freaks me out… no offense. female also does that but in a diff reasons and point of view.

anyway… people get what he/she decide to take…

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3 thoughts on “eat pray love

  1. rifqie says:

    as years go by we used to live our fantasy of a great family plus we have our definition of happiness, yet we have failed. those all make us hard to take the reality that what we want is not always the best for us.

    mbak upiek…

    kalau menurutku..if we ever have guts to love someone or to take someone’s love, then it means serious things. we have our fantasy of great family and definition of happiness, but oftenly we hesitate to move forward (and most people take ‘age’ as the reason). in the end, the relationship tears apart and we blame the faith or love for being mean to us.

    at any stage, all relationship have risks and consequences…for some cases, guts and commitment are the answers.

    • bener gin…

      having said, we are what decision we took.. sometimes gut leads us to the married status if we talking about married, and vise versa of it, gut is also able to lead us to the single status. age could bring out the gut. hahahahaha…

      but gut wont take us to the happiness. for the later, i believe we are the one who should responsible to our own happiness. we are the one who should be happy to feel the happiness. and whatever decision you take, should not influence on be happy or not, we are.

      • rifqie says:

        i see what u’re mean
        so true, being happy (or unhappy) is our own decision 🙂
        (nasehatin diri sendiri juga nih, lagi ga hepi soalnya. haha)

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